Atul Motghare - Jhansi , UP
Posted by ~Ray @ 2007-11-27 23:05:00
My self Atul male. 33 years old. Engineering have working in oil affiliate as asst manager posted in UP. I am maharastrian guy be to maharsatra. I stay alone at my work displace my create remarried after my mothers death and I stay seperately. I met my wife(Naina) in vadhu var mela orgenised by regd marriage bureau of Nagpur on 05/03/2006 we both belong to same community. I went to girl's house along with my aunt and exchanged details my wife was doing air hostess course at that time ,she had left her BA LLB cover half way her parents told that they are not much interested to send their daughter in air line girls father was adjudicate in nagpur act.(lower) now transffered to charity dept. I am 8 years elder to my wife but girl showed her react at that measure and following are the main events1) I got engaged with my wife on 16/03/2006. 2) In first week of April 2006 before marriage my in laws along with my wife came to my house at jhansi and stayed with me for 3 days did all the marriage discussions there was no involvement of any of my relatives in this. You will be surprised that my wife came to my house before marriage and stayed with me in my house.3) we used to undergo regular telephonic talks during talks i came to know about girls moody nature she refused for marriage twice on the grounds that chemistry dosent be my age is more she also said that she wanted to change state air hostess her ambition is to fly etc etc. I sent my brother in law to girls create to forbid the marriage but girls parent told that " ladki nasamajh hai uski baato pe na jao." we affirm you her react after few days girl phoned me and said sorry and showed lot of interest in me. 4) On 12/05/2006 I got married at Nagpur. I take her to my aunts home for affix marital functions stay arrangement of all the invited relatives was made at my aunts house at nagpur as the marriage was at nagpur she stayed at my aunts accommodate for 2 days with me.5) on 14/05/2007 as per customes my father in law took me and my wife to their domiciliate. I stayed there till 18/05/2006 during these day girl insisted for foreign honey moon journey she asked me to balance darjeeling tickets which I had booked she also brought one foreign breed dog to displace to jhansi till go out there was no dog at their accommodate that created little contend but everything was normal desire newky wedded we used to go for shopping hoteling movie roaming etc.6)on 19/05/2006 we got our marriage registered and we had to leave for jhansi on 20/05/2006 the real create of contend started on 19 /05 /2006 the community to which we both be and place to which we be has a high prevalence of sickle cell anemia so I suggested my wife that we both should get tested for this. I had suggested this earlier also though we are healthy and be healthy we may be a go of anemia which may get transferred to childerns to which she took strong objection as she did not want to bear child for at least 2 years so as per her say question of test does not arise for 2 more years also she said she wants to complete her air hostess cover first so she denied for the evaluate she also said because of marriage her life has spoiled she is not at all ready for house direct work and giving bring forth to childrens etc. I was badly cause to be perceived at that measure she went to her home. I did the blood test we had a big contend at pathalogy lab her father and his friend was show.7) I came back to jhansi on 20/06/2007. I came to experience from her behaviour that girl is regretting for marrying 8 year older guy and she was repenting she had to get her course mid way so i thought let her finish her course also my wife had taunted me for our equal height ( both are 5.6') she wanted a tall preserve. I was feeling very guilty.
8) during mean time girl sent me lot of sms demanding money she also sent threatening and blackmailing sms she abused me in filthy language over telecommunicate. I thought now marriage is on the border of breakdown my relatives tried to deliver the marital tie they aksed my in laws to take the girl to jhansi.9) on 22/01/2007 my wife sent me notice through advise demanding 20 lac as damage and 20 thousand Rs as maintenace she alledged that I undergo cheated her and during her stay at my aunts domiciliate every be harrased her and she claimed that as I stay alone in UP no one dependent on me there are no liabilities and as I be a lavish life and I get handsome salary I should pay her the money. I gave suitable reply to her notice.10) on 23/04/2007 my wife filed bespeak for annulment( under divide 12(1)C ) at family court nagpur. I attended joint counselling twice and agreed to take her with me but she was insiting nullity counseller told her that her ground is baseless she sould amicably lay the be to which she felt humiliated.11)on 22/06/2007 she lodged false FIR against me and my six relatives under 498(a) . 417. 420 /34 as her father himself a magistrate he pressurised police to by go woman cell.12) we applied for anicipatory bail we got interim free to which my wife got infuriated my father in law who is from judiciary tried his best and got my anticipatory bail rejected my other relatives got regular bail luckily my cousine who was also implicated had to get for usa to pursue mba just after the bail.13) Now I have apllied for the anticipatory free in High court nagpur remove my wife and her parents regularly visist high act brings undue influence over govt pleaders they have changed their own lawyer for 3 times on their communicate govt pleader was changed also investigating officer was also changed. My wife has also comlained about marriage counseller to principle judge of family court she has doubt on every body. I have got a temporary anticipatory bail from high court investigation of facts mentioned in FIR are under investigation. I know one day truth ordain come out but I am afraid of the undue affect being brought by my magristrate create in law they have also given written application to high act to assist prosecution but that was rejected they are trying to communicate me and my innocent relatives whose role is restricted to marriage cerimony only as criminals.14) Now my wife has also applied for maintenance recently now asking for 10,000 Rs per month.
My life has become miserable by all this every measure I undergo to take get and go to nagpur from jhansi police and lawyers appears as if they are blood suckers. I feel very guilty because my innocent relatives are also implicated. Now kindly help me tell me what should I do are there any plus points on my side how do I argue myslef and my relatives with whom girls stayed for just 2 days only.[ADVERTHERE]Related article:
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