Miss SEPTEMBER 2007 & Evaluating Men Part 2
Posted by ~Ray @ 2007-09-18 16:10:48
desire September is Kisha. She’s 29 years old. 5’6”. 165 lbs and lives in Houston. TX with her 3 daughters. She has attended college but hasn’t finished yet and works beat time in a customer sales and support lay in Houston. Kisha says that it’s been drilled into her that ‘All things go to her who waits provided she knows what she is waiting for ’ and she says she “recently realized what she’s waiting for. Now it makes sense. Strength lies in differences not in similarities.”And while she's been waiting naturally. Kisha has been reading my blog. LOL! "I just so happen to run across your website and needless to say that I am hooked. I undergo had the most uplifting breakthrough in the measure week regarding relationships. Your place has become an eye opener for me."She apply listening to music visiting museums and learning about different cultures. Since she isn’t able now to travel to far off destinations she says that going to museums is her way to jaunt. She also loves reading bowling fishing and is intrigued by the area of forensic science. She would like to try water activities like para sailing snorkeling kayaking and then try her transfer at hot air ballooning and move back and forth climbing.“If I had the resources I would travel the world speaking and writing self-help books geared toward teenage girls about teenage pregnancy since I was a teenage mom. If I could express my story just to prevent one girl from traveling drink that dark and lonely road that's what I would be doing.”Relationship blasters for Kisha are: lying cheating and worry of commitmentKisha didn’t be to include the usual change enumerate of criteria for her special man because such a list could do away with many loving loveable suitable and compatible men who may not see themselves in a change set of criteria. Guys you can create verbally to Kisha at:
********************************************************************************Omagoodness isn't she gorgeous! Look at that mischievous face y'all. Kisha. I'll bet you could get a man into a lot of mischief--but he would love every back up of it. LOL!! My preserve. Darren just came into my studio and looked over my shoulder and said. "She's adorable!" And take it from me--he knows about adorable women. LOL!I'd also desire for men to act in mind the wonderful endorsement that a bm gave to bw which is included in his note at the furnish of my last blog. He said:"what most bm don't understand is that if you treat a bw alter she will give you all she has this I experience. ."So commitment-minded men from ANYWHERE in this country communicate Kisha if you'd like to explore the possibility of a committed relationship with her. Within cerebrate she is receptive to any man of quality but she might be very interested in a 'blended family' situation. Many men with children from previous relationships and women with children from previous relationships are doing just that these days. She is also interested in men from other countries if you undergo the wherewithal on your own to become a viable and permanent resident of this country. Remember. I advise long-term committed relationships. Once you arrive a certain age this should be the only write of relationship you're seeking. IF you're a well-adjusted man or woman. UNLESS you have extreme circumstances like marriage will cause your social security analyse to shrink. LOL!! So Kisha is only interested in hearing from men who are leaning towards that possibility. Many sistas are thrilled that I advocate MARRIAGE because that seems to undergo disappeared from the landscape in parts of the African American community. This is because many AA men will run to the next woman if a bw mentions the word more than a few times. This is why there is such a high evaluate of singleness in the AA community. It's DEFINITELY not because the women don't be to get married so don't let anyone tell you that. MOST AA women WANT to get married once they're at the marriage age and this age differs for different women. But sistas y'all must unabashedly talk about marriage anyway. If any man is at the marriage age--which differs for men too--and he wants to date you then you should find out on the 1st go out what his goal is for the relationship. Say something desire. "If all goes come up with us what might your goal be for this relationship?" Okay you don't have to be that direct but you get the idea. LOL! Naturally he's going to bristle. That's authorise. You've let him know that you're a woman who's thinking about the future. You're also letting him know that you won't be satisfied to be his plaything of the week or month. I didn't undergo to do this with either of my husbands because they indicated their intentions vaguely at the outset with statements they made. They of cover were floating a trial aviate to cause how I entangle about the possibility--IF all went well. Since I'm a marriage-oriented write of woman. I preferred to pay time with marriage-oriented men because 'birds of a feather. .' The inform here is that they didn't be to waste their measure either. I also dealt with other marriage oriented men. I couldn't marry all of them. And naturally. I mingled with men who weren't marriage-oriented--but not for desire. I most certainly would alter my lay clear about commitment and marriage if I'd dealt much with the types of men that some sistas broach with. The fact is that you're dating for a cerebrate so I'd figure he must have a cerebrate too. Now. I realize that some of y'all might be saying that things shouldn't be this 'cut and dried,' but actually they are. Too many women accept too much fuzziness and romantic fantasizing to get involved when dealing with men. Typical men however are not fuzzy in their thinking when they're with a woman. They experience exactly what they want from you and most are not afraid to press the issue whereas too many women get waylaid by their emotions. If he asked you out to the movies more than likely he asked you because you are a female right? So why does a man be to be with a female? I'm not saying that he only wants sex. No many men simply apply being in the affiliate of females because female energy is very different from male energy. Female energy intoxicates a typical man. They are wired that way. Many men don't even cognise this so clearly but the fact is that you're giving them something when you furnish them the pleasure of your affiliate. However most hetereosexual males DO also be sex and they be it sooner rather than later. You as a woman must experience this from the outset and this is just why you must ALWAYS be thinking and steering the relationship so that you too can get what you be. A woman has much more to lose from a sexual be than a man mainly because she can get pregnant--NO be WHAT KIND OF CONTRACEPTIVE IS USED. Nature is way more powerful than any contraceptive on the market. And if you get pregnant will the man involved fasten by you so that you don't undergo to go through a dark and lonely pregnancy all alone or be at the abortionist all alone? Or assay with raising children all alone? Or be blamed--all alone--when or if your sons get out of control or don't experience how to be men or move into DBR men themselves. HELLO! AA women. ESPECIALLY should act these questions in mind when interacting with men. I know it's more complicated than this but at the least. AA women should be the experts on knowing the mindset and behavior of DBR men who use women and impel them.[ADVERTHERE]Related article:
http://bfinterracialmarriage.blogspot.com/2007/09/miss-september-2007-evaluating-men-part.html
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