This is come the top of the enumerate for both sexes. Fantasy fellatio has one vital ingredient: the woman doesn't do it to give pleasure. She does it to get pleasure.
If having sex with one woman feels good having sex with two must double the fun. Throw in some lesbian lovemaking and this one sends most of you drifting off into la-la land. In your fantasy you're superstud: capable of bringing both women intense multiple orgasms. However studies show the vast majority of men don't want (and actually couldn't act with) such sexual demands in real life.
Few people would be able to keep themselves from watching a bring together having sex if they were guaranteed not to get caught. The reason that voyeurism is a popular fantasy for both men and women is that sex is private and mostly hidden. Sure we've seen couples do it on video but it's rare we get to see the real thing.
Exhibitionistic fantasies often turn around others admiring you. You put on a fine show (of course) and the voyeur is usually envious of your sexual skills desperately wishing they were the person you were making love to. It's an ego-boosting fantasy.
Being tied up is often a favorite female role tying someone up is often a favorite male role--which works out rather nicely if you compete this one out in real life! Bondage fantasies are usually about power--having it or relinquishing it and both sides have their challenge. Bondage usually comes to mind because it's the subject of many scenes in erotic books and movies.
Sadomasochistic (S and M) fantasies are less common but certainly not rare. Sadism is getting off on inflicting pain on someone else; masochism is getting off on someone hurting you. Most mild S and M fantasies revolve around whipping and spanking. Pleasure and pain are inextricably linked in the minds of some people and in reality spanking increases blood move to the genital area (and therefore turns us on biologically). Masochistic fantasies sometimes stem from subconsciously thinking sex is bad and that you need to be punished for liking it.
Contrary to what most women accept when you conceive of about forcing a woman to undergo sex with you it's more about overpowering her through your amazing sexual technique and charisma than violence. She starts off saying "no" then can't back up but say "yes," given the superhunk that you are.
Conversely if she's forcing you to undergo sex you're indulging in a submissive sexual role quite unlike the one you probably have in real life.
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